Each of us has our own unique taboos and is extremely reluctant to be touched by others. Such taboos are mainly psychological and may be called psychological forbidden areas. They may be personal general information, personal physical weakness or personal psychological trauma. The psychological forbidden zone is an individual's most vulnerable situation or rather unbearable experience. Once touched, the individual will be particularly painful and even desperate.

When I was in the first grade of primary school, one day I chatted with a friend in other classes outside the classroom. He asked me, "what did you draw in the last art class?" I said, "plum blossom." Who knows, a classmate next to me immediately rushed to me crying and shouted angrily, "why do you say my mother's name?"

A student with a master of Education said that when she was in junior middle school, a teacher inadvertently saw a girl with a huge mole on her arm and several hairs. He cried out: "what a big lump!" Since then, no matter how hot the girl is, she doesn't wear short sleeved clothes and doesn't want to participate in collective activities.

When I was in the second grade of junior middle school, there was a classmate who failed in grade. As long as others called him "poor", he was immediately furious and looked extremely helpless. It turned out that when he was reading in the morning, he once asked the Chinese teacher on patrol for advice on how to read a word. The teacher shouted, "don't pretend to be miserable for me!" Not long after the teacher came out of the classroom, some students couldn't wait to learn from him and shouted, "don't pretend to be miserable for me!" Since then, this sentence has become the line of some students laughing at this student, and constantly simplified, and finally fixed, which is the word "poor".

In fact, not only will teachers cause psychological trauma to students and form a psychological forbidden zone, but also vice versa.

A master of education student wrote in his homework:

I am a junior high school teacher and have worked for more than ten years. Soon after working, the students named me catfish. At first, I didn't care, and the students didn't shout in front of me. But in recent years, once I criticize a student, he will call my flower name. To this end, I have taken many measures to control it, but they have no effect. Passed down from one session to another, almost all students know my flower name. Some students call my flower name indiscriminately, and even my flower name is my real name. Some students also drew a catfish on their homework books to demonstrate. I confiscated their exercise books, and they drew catfish on the blackboard to see my reaction. I even have the heart to kill!

It can be seen that touching the psychological restricted area, especially deliberately offending the psychological restricted area, will do great harm to the parties.

In fact, psychological forbidden zone problems will not only arise and exist in primary and secondary schools, but also in Colleges and universities. Perhaps, "double non", "three no professors", "funds", "papers" and "awards" are no different from "plum blossom", "what a big lump", "poor", "catfish" and even more lethal and fierce for many college students and teachers.

Take into account, respect and protect the possible psychological exclusion zone of others! After all, the situation is very complicated, and everyone has to save face and maintain self-esteem in society, especially in front of important others.